Sigh. I caved and joined AFF...

Try Tinder instead, it is free.

Here is a contrary opinion (posted in another thread):

People talk about that app like it's a gold mine, but in reality it's nothing but bots and fat girls. Decently attractive women will have potential suitors at any given moment, so they don't have to resort to online dating, apps, etc.
 
Here is a contrary opinion (posted in another thread):
There is actually more potential on tinder because it's free and you only sing up with your Facebook account on a simple app than aff, just saying
 
Just found an article reporting that a sample of user data obtained by hackers indicates that the ratio of men to women on AFF is 16 to 1. You can understand why the site would not want that information to get around. I don't think I would ever have bothered to pay for a membership if I had known about it.

There is actually more potential on tinder because it's free and you only sing up with your Facebook account on a simple app than aff, just saying

I understand that Tinder is very heavily weighted toward a younger crowd. I'm 56.
 
AFF, like most things on the internet (at least to those of us who have been around for a while), seems to have taken a dive in quality in the past few years. I did have some really good experiences with it almost a decade ago, though. Of course, I was living in a much more metropolitan area than I am now, so that is a factor no doubt. I was a free member when I first signed up and mainly used to visit the AFF chatroom in my local area. I remember how awesome I thought it was that I set up a date with a woman while sitting in my boxers and drinking a beer! She showed up at my door after having met in the chatroom less than four hours ago. She was as hot as her pics and backed up all of her talk with some very hot and heavy action as well. It literally changed my life. I remember thinking 'you can basically order pussy like pizza?!' (LOL!)...what have I been doing with my adult life so far? Don't hate me for saying that, it's just a little humor to highlight how much that site changed my views on sex and dating at the time. I was active and enjoying myself with singles and couples for almost a decade after that. Eventually I became a paid member to take advantage of some of the perks. The last time I was on, it was still possible to get action, but I just haven't out the effort into it lately. Happy hunting and if you need any tips, hit me up.
 
Had no trouble with the sex thing, just people who were not Krazy:confused:. I stay here on LPSG because everyone is 100% sane.
 
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Just found an article reporting that a sample of user data obtained by hackers indicates that the ratio of men to women on AFF is 16 to 1. You can understand why the site would not want that information to get around. I don't think I would ever have bothered to pay for a membership if I had known about it.



I understand that Tinder is very heavily weighted toward a younger crowd. I'm 56.


Oi, I'm a nudge off 60. Back when I was on Adult Matchmaker and RSVP...Had to put my profile offline in the days I did not visit.

Put in your profile that you are a Psychic. Nah, only joking :) I have not been on those sites for years, I found my love of 10 years through RSVP.

No, I did not have that I am a Psychic or Psychotic in my profile...:) If these sites are not, or do not seem like fun, make it fun. Enjoy yourself, when you do, people will find you.
 
She showed up at my door after having met in the chatroom less than four hours ago. She was as hot as her pics and backed up all of her talk with some very hot and heavy action as well.

I am willing to believe that this actually happened at some time in the past, but applied to the present-day AFF it would be just a ridiculous fantasy that the site uses to lure in the (male) chumps.
 
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well, against my better judgment, but because i am hopeful of finding sexually progressive women, i just joined adult friend finder. i am hopeful there are some real women on there but it doesn't look promising. sigh.

it sucks being a straight guy trying to find girls to hook up with.

LOL, I feel you brother. I have even had way better results from Craigslist than AFF. But even then the good ones are super rare. The real challenge is finding women who we are actually sexually attracted to. There are bucketloads of unattractive, and/or super slutty women willing to have sex all the time. I turn every single one of those chicks down like a hot potato.
Then you have the ones who look good but are unwilling to verify they are clean, RED FLAG!
I don't go anywhere NEAR that shit man, LOL.

I would surmise that those other guys claiming to have alot of success on there are getting laid by pretty nasty women. From the pics I have seen on AFF hookups, I'm like yeeeeahh, she ain't that good lookin' dude, no thanks.
Not to mention those "orgy" pics that look like a pile of stale cottage cheese and flesh combined.
You really ain't missin' out bro.

I've come to the conclusion that I would rather jack off than participate in most of that stuff.
 
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I am willing to believe that this actually happened at some time in the past, but applied to the present-day AFF it would be just a ridiculous fantasy that the site uses to lure in the (male) chumps.

Yeah man I totally agree, this topic cracks me up as I am very familiar with AFF and its BS claims.

Modern Day AFF 101

Good looks, check,
Big/Huge cock, check,
Confidence, check,
Clear about what I want, check.
Openly Willing and ready to verify I am std free, check
Willing to meet up in public before sex, check

Result, no responses, LOL.

It ain't about the looks dudes, its AFF, that is all.
Unless you want to join in a wrinkly skin cottage cheese orgy, then you'll be in good shape, and AFF is the place for you!
 
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I would surmise that those other guys claiming to have alot of success on there are getting laid by pretty nasty women. From the pics I have seen on AFF hookups, I'm like yeeeeahh, she ain't that good lookin' dude, no thanks.
Not to mention those "orgy" pics that look like a pile of stale cottage cheese and flesh combined.
You really ain't missin' out bro.

I've come to the conclusion that I would rather jack off than participate in most of that stuff.

Yes, there is always plan (mastur-) B. :p

I should mention that I did get a reply from one woman. Her profile, which said that she was 41 years old, had three photos. In two of them her body looked very hot, in another not so hot, but still perhaps all right; her face was not visible. In reply to my message she sent me some face photos. What they made me think was: If you really are 41, you've had a very hard life! I'm guessing that she's at least 51 and that the two photos in which her body looked good either were of someone else or were taken at least 10 years ago. I replied, "Thanks," and left it at that.
 
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Yes, there is always plan (mastur-) B. :p

I should mention that I did get a reply from one woman. Her profile, which said that she was 41 years old, had three photos. In two of them her body looked very hot, in another not so hot, but still perhaps all right; her face was not visible. In reply to my message she sent me some face photos. What they made me think was: If you really are 41, you've had a very hard life! I'm guessing that she's at least 51 and that the two photos in which her body looked good either were of someone else or were taken at least 10 years ago. I replied, "Thanks," and left it at that.
You're 56 and she's 51-ish? Congrats, that's a good match-up ;)
 
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Yes, there is always plan (mastur-) B. :p

I should mention that I did get a reply from one woman. Her profile, which said that she was 41 years old, had three photos. In two of them her body looked very hot, in another not so hot, but still perhaps all right; her face was not visible. In reply to my message she sent me some face photos. What they made me think was: If you really are 41, you've had a very hard life! I'm guessing that she's at least 51 and that the two photos in which her body looked good either were of someone else or were taken at least 10 years ago. I replied, "Thanks," and left it at that.

Yeah man, women will do that stuff alot. They'll leave really old pics up for years after they have aged past them or gained tons of weight or whatever. I have run into the same thing on dating sites many times over as well. It mainly has to do with their insecurities over their bodies. They assume you will see past the physical and like them regardless, which may be true.

However, there is a dishonesty factor involved when women do that, which is a possible indication of a person who likely cannot be trusted in the long term. Even if only for the fact that her insecurities will likely cause rash, unpredictable or other forms of dishonest behavior down the road.
 
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You're 56 and she's 51-ish? Congrats, that's a good match-up ;)
I can only guess at her age; and I did say "at least 51" (51 because she said 41). My point was that either she was lying about her age in her profile or she looks really bad for her age; either way, she didn't look good. And I had reason to believe that her body would not look anything like what was shown in the two photos of a woman with a good body, who may or may not have been the same woman, recently or a long time ago.
 
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I can only guess at her age; and I did say "at least 51" (51 because she said 41). My point was that either she was lying about her age in her profile or she looks really bad for her age; either way, she didn't look good. And I had reason to believe that her body would not look anything like what was shown in the two photos of a woman with a good body, who may or may not have been the same woman, recently or a long time ago.


This is what I feel whenever I run into women like that on AFF or elsewhere.
 
I am willing to believe that this actually happened at some time in the past, but applied to the present-day AFF it would be just a ridiculous fantasy that the site uses to lure in the (male) chumps.

You are correct in that the episode that I related happened a few years back, Calboner. I stated that in my comment. I've never had an experience on there like yours, though, where someone misrepresented themselves in their photos. Of course, there's fakes, flakes, etc., but the site has treated me pretty well in the past, although it's been awhile since I've logged in. My experiences may have to do with the fact that I present myself as a BBC Bull as well, but that's mere speculation. I've been the first BBC for many a couple and single woman.
 
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well, against my better judgment, but because i am hopeful of finding sexually progressive women, i just joined adult friend finder. i am hopeful there are some real women on there but it doesn't look promising. sigh.

it sucks being a straight guy trying to find girls to hook up with.

well, against my better judgment, but because i am hopeful of finding sexually progressive women, i just joined adult friend finder. i am hopeful there are some real women on there but it doesn't look promising. sigh.

it sucks being a straight guy trying to find girls to hook up with.
For staight up casual sex its ok- for anything else, its a con....

Scrub that.Its a con, period.
 
You are correct in that the episode that I related happened a few years back, Calboner. I stated that in my comment. I've never had an experience on there like yours, though, where someone misrepresented themselves in their photos. Of course, there's fakes, flakes, etc., but the site has treated me pretty well in the past, although it's been awhile since I've logged in. My experiences may have to do with the fact that I present myself as a BBC Bull as well, but that's mere speculation. I've been the first BBC for many a couple and single woman.
Hi. What's AFF?